case: (Default)
Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-10-22 06:44 pm

[ SECRET POST #2120 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2120 ⌋

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mudousetsuna: (Miranda)

[personal profile] mudousetsuna 2012-10-23 02:00 pm (UTC)(link)
Seconding this, and you worded it better than I could.

I was a dependent friend, and in her own way, I think a friend of mine was too. We kind of ruined each other. If you feel that attached to someone then you need to take a step back, even talk to someone else about it, and try to branch out. This doesn't mean your friendship will fall apart. Having a healthy distance will probably /strengthen/ it. Then you can appreciate the time you have together, and stop worrying about it as much as you clearly are.

No one, not even the most deeply attached people, can stand each other 24/7, and every single person including you needs some space in order to function. When it's at a point where you don't feel like it's fair if you do things separately, you are going to start strangling each other mentally and emotionally.