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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-10-22 06:44 pm

[ SECRET POST #2120 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2120 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2012-10-23 10:22 pm (UTC)(link)
Honestly, I've been in a relationship like this, too. It was slightly different because there was clinginess coming from both sides, but if I'm being honest, I have to admit that I was the clingier part of the equation (although I was eventually the one to cut things off, but I think that may have been because she was afraid to, for all of the reasons you've stated about your friend). And even being the clingier part of the equation and as much as I thought I had to have that friendship there and that I couldn't be happy without it, it was making me absolutely fucking miserable. I honestly did have moments where I thought that it would be the worst thing ever if the relationship ended, but in all honesty... it wasn't. It sucks losing a friendship, and occasionally I do miss being able to talk to her, and it wasn't exactly easy at first, but I'm so much happier where I'm at now. Sometimes you do just have to say enough is enough, for your own emotional well-being as well as that of your friend. She might not agree about it now, but it will be better for both of you in the long run.