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fandomsecrets2012-11-02 05:54 pm
case) wrote in fandomsecrets2012-11-02 05:54 pm
[ SECRET POST #2131 ]
⌈ Secret Post #2131 ⌋
Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.
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[Red Dwarf X]
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05. http://i.imgur.com/yB8cp.png
[linked for illustrated Snape/Harry porn]
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[ ----- SPOILERY SECRETS AHEAD ----- ]
17. [SPOILERS for Detective Conan/Case Closed]
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18. [SPOILERS for Miller's Crossing]
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19. [SPOILERS for Journey into Mystery]
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20. [SPOILERS for Sanctuary]
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21. [SPOILERS for Journey into Mystery/Thor]
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22. [SPOILERS for DCnU Suicide Squad]
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[ ----- TRIGGERY SECRETS AHEAD ----- ]
23. [WARNING for rape]
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24. [WARNING for suicide]
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Notes:
To the anon that wanted warnings on .gif secrets: I'm not sure how I could effectively implement that. For triggery or spoilery secrets, one could just not read the text, but for .gifs by the time you get to the warning, it's already moving in your field of vision. If you have a suggestion as to how it could be done without just linking the secret (it's not breaking any rules or containing porn or gore, so that wouldn't be fair), let me know. Putting it in the notes for now.
16 is a .gif, by the way.
Secrets Left to Post: 00 pages, 000 secrets from Secret Submission Post #304.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.
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(Anonymous) 2012-11-02 10:50 pm (UTC)(link)However, I encourage you to focus more on your reaction to finding out what the video was, and to see it a good sign; it means you understand that there's a separation between fantasy and reality, and you realize that in real-world contexts rape is terrible. A lot of people really struggle with guilt over their consent kinks because they're worried that makes them rapists, but it's been made pretty clear that you don't condone rape.
As someone who enjoys consent play myself, I've had to really take a good hard look at why I like it so much, given how horrible rape is and how very much I am opposed to it. I found that it wasn't the rape itself that I was attracted to, but the power exchange/interplay and the relinquishment of responsibility. You might like different underlying factors, but I'm willing to bet that examining the roots of your kink will help you get past this awful experience and understand yourself a bit better.
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