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fandomsecrets2012-11-04 03:35 pm
case) wrote in fandomsecrets2012-11-04 03:35 pm
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⌈ Secret Post #2133 ⌋
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Re: How do you feel about Polyamory, FS?
Granted there might be people who bash monogamy without any underlaying cause, but I think a lot of it could be explained by 'newly "saved"', or that some have had to defend themselves and their preference a lot. My (our) boyfriend has been like that earlier, but it has mellowed a bit as he has become more secure in that this is who he is and that he doesn't have to defend himself and his choices so much anymore. I'm certain I've been like that at times, too.
I'll say this, though: poly might be viewed as more complicated as you don't get away with not communicating the same way as one can in a mono relationship. In my experience, stuff get to fester a looooot longer in a twosome, than in a motesome, before it reaches critical mass. I've never talked so much about feelings, boundaries and trus in my mono relationships as I have in my current poly one and I am better off for it.