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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-11-13 05:26 pm

[ SECRET POST #2142 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2142 ⌋

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[personal profile] visp 2012-11-14 01:22 am (UTC)(link)
Depends on the person, I suppose.

(Anonymous) 2012-11-14 01:40 am (UTC)(link)
I suppose.

You are a font of support this evening, you know that?

(Anonymous) 2012-11-14 03:32 am (UTC)(link)
Not the OP, but just for I know it would have been highly impractical for me to stay a virgin that long.

The reason being that I have a strong sex drive, and no religious or cultural beliefs that virginity is important. Possibly, theoretically, I guess I could have kept my virginity into my 20s...but it would have been impractical because there was no reason whatsoever for me to do so, and a very compelling reason (my libido) for me not to. I would have had to work much harder to stay a virgin than not to, and that would have served no purpose and not made me happy.

For someone who doesn't have as strong a sex drive, the opposite might well be true, and staying a virgin might indeed be practical. It all has to do with the amount of effort it takes and whether or not that effort is worthwhile in one's own judgment.

I don't think there's anything wrong with having sex in one's teens like I did, and I don't think there's anything wrong with being a virgin as long as one wants. But practicality--that's something that varies with the individual and the situations.

(Anonymous) 2012-11-14 09:29 am (UTC)(link)
Masturbation is not impractical.

js

(Anonymous) 2012-11-14 09:31 am (UTC)(link)
PS: Not saying you should have masturbated, cos your body your business whose body gets up in it. Just saying "a low sex drive" is not required to make virginity practical.
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(Anonymous) 2012-11-14 11:46 am (UTC)(link)
Having had both and vastly preferring masturbation, I get what you're saying. But trying to tell people that their sex drive is broken just because they really enjoy having sex by/with themselves is hella rude.
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[personal profile] diet_poison 2012-11-14 12:26 pm (UTC)(link)
ia, and so is implying that they have a low sex drive just because they've never had sex...