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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-11-13 05:26 pm

[ SECRET POST #2142 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2142 ⌋

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[personal profile] inkdust 2012-11-14 01:51 am (UTC)(link)
So agreed about the creepy. Purity and all that.

(Anonymous) 2012-11-14 07:08 am (UTC)(link)
I honestly don't get why virginity is even a THING that so many people are so obsessed with.

We don't have a special word for people who've never eaten sushi or never been to Berlin or never had a child or never driven a car. It's just, okay, you've never had sex. All that means is that there's this one thing you've never done. It doesn't make you a special category of person, either in a good way or a bad way. There's nothing especially admirable or important about either having had sex or NOT having had it--how is it different from the other things I've listed?

(Anonymous) 2012-11-14 07:27 am (UTC)(link)
my guess is that sexually repressing women and shaming them has been a pretty effective way to control them, so making a big deal out of having sex for the first time plays into that

men are also controlled the same way, but by being congratulated instead of side-eyed

(Anonymous) 2012-11-14 12:58 pm (UTC)(link)
+1
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[personal profile] inkdust 2012-11-14 11:25 am (UTC)(link)
Not to mention its definition becoming more and more arbitrary. I also love your examples.