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⌈ Secret Post #2149 ⌋

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[Fate/Zero; Game of Thrones]

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[One Direction]

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[The Walking Dead/Watership Down]

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[DC Universe Online]

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[Kamisama Hajimemashita]

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[The Dark Knight Rises]

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[Vattu by Evan Dahm]

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[Touhou Project]

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[Swamp Brothers]

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[Kuroko no Basket, Saki]

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[The Monkees]

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[Homestuck/John Dies at the End]

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[Homestuck]

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[Reservoir Dogs, Harvey Keitel/Tim Roth]

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[J.R.R. Tolkien]

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[Mindless Self Indulgence]

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[Scrubs]

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I logged on today and whoa, so many comments on my post yesterday. ...Unfortunately I'm neither feeling well nor do I have much time but I want to talk about this with everyone and reply to the amazing replies I got. Tomorrow (or maybe tuesday since mondays get ignored... idk) I'll try posting my individual replies in one comment here.

I feel so bad that I didn't get a chance to reply. Heck it's causing me some pretty bad anxiety right now. If anyone who commented there has a better suggestion, do let me know. x_x I'm sad I didn't get to answer the lovely comments. Heck I was convinced no one wouldreply, as people usually don't and... ugh. D:

The only thing that matters is that you read our comments. You're under no obligation to reply! :)

Commented there. No one really expects you to reply immediately. If you want to reply in general comments on another day, sure, but you could just reply directly to each of the comments that people left you on yesterday's post. Most people who logged in will be better able to get replies if it drops off in their emails that way, compared to having to check general comments on a regular basis to see if you said anything, and I'm sure the anons would know enough to look it up if they feel like it. That way, you're directly addressing the people who spoke to you, rather than the entire community in general (and if you're replying to every single thing, it sounds like it might end up kind of long).

If you do want to reply to each individual comment and have the entire community read it, though, then that's fine too, I suppose, it's really your decision there but it would be kind of a different approach to things. And do you have to write something meaningful in reply? If you can't come up with anything, don't force yourself, even 'thanks, I appreciate it' would be good. If you feel like you want to say more, then say more, but there's no need to force yourself. Notification that you did get what people wrote is enough.

As the first anon said, don't stress about replying to us. You read our comments and hopefully they helped you out in some way. That's all that matters. I hope you're doing at least a little better today. ♥

I'm sorry to hear you aren't feeling so good. Hope you feel better soon!

Pretty sure everyone who commented would rather not get a reply if it is making you anxious. I, for one, am happy just knowing you read and appreciated the comments.

BTW my offer to PM doesn't have an expiration date or even a topic expectation. :D

I couldn't think of a reply that didn't make me sound like a presumptive and psychoanalytic ass. But it's cool to know you did read them. I was worried we wouldn't hear from you for a while.

I'd like to say you get desensitised over time to replies, and that you just need to comment/converse more, but that's not necessarily true. I still think you can try though. Same with irl and continuing to reach out to others; rejection takes getting used to, and you learn what worked or didn't work each time.

http://www.helpguide.org/toolkit/emotional_health_audio.htm

try listening to this, it's guided meditation. I know it sounds sort of hokey, but it was given to me by my college's counselor to help with my anxiety and it's really calming. Hope it helps!

I just hope you feel better, don't feel obligated to reply. :) I hate opening my email sometimes for the same reason. Sometimes... I take a month to reply to something simple. c_c

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