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fandomsecrets2012-11-22 06:21 pm
[ SECRET POST #2151 ]
⌈ Secret Post #2151 ⌋
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(Anonymous) 2012-11-23 03:24 am (UTC)(link)I'm also gay, so I definitely understand where you're coming from and how portraying a canonical lesbian/gay guy with someone of the opposite sex can be done in an offensive way.
but...
Most fics I've seen that have a canon gay character in a m/f relationship don't actually turn the character straight (of course, this is evidence that I've mostly gathered from Kurt/Rachel fic which is a pairing that I'm a fan of). It just has them realizing that they may be a little more flexible than they previously. I can accept this, because it's...actually something I've seen more than a few times irl. I love the LGBT community but unfortunately some of the people in it (from my experience, I can't speak for everyone of course) can actually be surprisingly close minded. I've known a lot of gay people who are adamant that you're either gay or straight and that bisexuality just isn't really a thing and that the concept is mostly just a cry for attention. I've actually known women who had identified themselves as lesbians for a while and started having feelings for men but they just pushed those feelings down because they were afraid that their friends would view them as a "traitor" for even being attracted to men, which is ridiculous.
Anyway, I totally veered off track on that one. Basically: Turning a gay character straight through the power of pussy in fic? I'm side eyeing you. Having a gay character realize that they don't HAVE to pick one gender or the other to be attracted to? Sure, I can get behind that. You don't have to totally erase someone's sexuality to ship them with a character you like, after all.
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(Anonymous) 2012-11-23 06:27 pm (UTC)(link)Ah yes, I understand what you mean now! I would be a lot more hesitant about something like this being done in canon too (...especially with this particular pairing). I don't think it's impossible for a show to do something like it well, but it can very easily become...not so good