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(Anonymous) 2012-11-24 09:57 pm (UTC)(link)We might use the word ugly in different ways. Ugly is harsh, and reserved for when I have additional negative feelings about the person, aside from looks (say, I find them painful on the eyes and their opinions to be offensive). Not finding someone pretty is a term I'm more likely to use if I respect the person, or don't have feelings either way. I think that's the best way I can describe. I'd use 'ugly' to help fuel hate. 'Not my type' is more neutral.
There's no real right for me to be mean about her (or anyone's) looks. It's just that when you dislike someone, you'll pick them apart any little way you can. They're less likely to get a pass on things you'd let slide for someone you did like. For me, personally, I think my hate is more from Twilight being everywhere, so it's hard to avoid (when I'm trying to stay respectfully away from it), and then the Snow White movie also starring her & looking so romance oriented (guess I should've expected it). Being the forefront of those kinda gives her the brunt of my already-in-place irritation.
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Ah, then we seem to use the word in a similar way.
Oh, I saw Snow White and the Huntsman. There's a little romance but I think it mostly had to do with beauty and duty. Wasn't that great but it was okay I guess. But you don't have to like her, that's fine. I just don't fully understand why it needs to be, well, expressed in such a bullying manner. I don't know.
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(Anonymous) 2012-11-24 11:27 pm (UTC)(link)I think the hateful comments go back to the grade school days. Calling someone ugly instantly makes them worse than you. It doesn't, but you'll feel cooler. I usually stop at snickering behind my hand in some far off hallway. But I guess if you're louder or more obnoxious, you'll get more reaction or do more damage. Possibly become Queen Bee... Yeah. Not nice, but it happens :x
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Yeah, I think that's unfortunate.
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