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Re: Christmas present advice
(Anonymous) 2012-12-04 11:03 pm (UTC)(link)I know, I know, once you give someone a gift it's theirs, to do what they like with. But we're talking about someone who has a closetful of useless stuff people have given her over the past couple of decades--ugly cookie jars, an ugly salt and pepper set with a matching napkin holder shaped like a reindeer, ugly Christmas knicknacks, an ugly set of matching Christmas hand towels, and other things she would never, ever be caught dead using--that she refuses to either regift, or unload at a rummage sale.
Because Mrs. X, who gave her the fugly handtowels, is friends with Mrs. Y, who might visit Z, (any one of a number of people she might regift the things to, or who might buy them at a rummage sale), and see the handtowels in Z's bathroom, and recognize the exact handtowels that Mrs. X gave my mom thirteen years ago, and magically divine that my mom had regifted them, and pass the news on to Mrs. X.
So yes, I felt hurt, and I said so.
But now I worry, any time she expresses appreciation for a present I've given her, that she really doesn't like it or value it any more than the yucky handtowels, so I can't win.