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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-12-17 07:26 pm

[ SECRET POST #2176 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2176 ⌋

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Notes:

Sorry for late, busy day.

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elialshadowpine: (Default)

Re: Non-fandom confessions/unpopular opinions!

[personal profile] elialshadowpine 2012-12-18 06:19 am (UTC)(link)
In my experience, people are a lot more likely to brush queer women off as just being "friendly" or "joking" or if they see you holding hands, unless you are kissing, they assume you are related. (My ex-gf and I? I lost track of the number of people who assumed that either she was my mother, or that we were sisters. And still did not get it when gently corrected, and then just thought Really Close Friends.)

I wear skirts and "girly" clothes a lot and get read as straight even when I am being flirty and checking out other women and such. I have literally had people, when I mentioned "ex-girlfriend", were all "but you don't look like a lesbian!"

*siiiiiiiiiiigh*
diet_poison: (Default)

Re: Non-fandom confessions/unpopular opinions!

[personal profile] diet_poison 2012-12-18 08:43 pm (UTC)(link)
That is very unfortunate =(

but you don't look like a lesbian!

I've heard people mention this happening a lot and it is really one of the stupidest things.