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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-12-18 06:35 pm

[ SECRET POST #2177 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2177 ⌋

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Re: Non-fandom confessions/unpopular opinions!

(Anonymous) 2012-12-19 12:44 am (UTC)(link)
I'm never having children because mental disorders and genetic conditions run in my family. I am not one of those people who would be willing to give up everything for my kid, and that's what it would take to be a good parent to a special needs child (and probably a good parent in general.)

So I'm not even risking it.

Re: Non-fandom confessions/unpopular opinions!

(Anonymous) 2012-12-19 12:56 am (UTC)(link)
I'm the same.... also, I have very little patience or tolerance for misbehavior, especially from anyone old enough to know better. I don't think I could handle dealing with even the typical "testing the limits" that children do without being an abusive asshole. I'd have to have myself arrested before I did something I'd regret.

Re: Non-fandom confessions/unpopular opinions!

(Anonymous) 2012-12-19 01:03 am (UTC)(link)
What if you had access to medical technology (and I'm not sure exists yet, though I think it's going that way) that would allow you to "design" a child missing these disorders and conditions?

Re: Non-fandom confessions/unpopular opinions!

(Anonymous) 2012-12-19 01:18 am (UTC)(link)
Maybe, but I think just the thought in general is probably a sign I shouldn't be a parent. Also, technology is never a guarantee.

Re: Non-fandom confessions/unpopular opinions!

(Anonymous) 2012-12-19 01:57 am (UTC)(link)
I fully believe I could handle and give up everything for a child, because I did for someone else. But I have so many health conditions including mental disorders that I said long ago I will not have children because it feels wrong to with the genetics I have.

Re: Non-fandom confessions/unpopular opinions!

(Anonymous) 2012-12-19 01:59 am (UTC)(link)
Same. I don't even want to be in a serious relationship is because I don't want to be responsible for another person having to deal with my (episodes of) mental illness. Children are just a no-no.
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Re: Non-fandom confessions/unpopular opinions!

[personal profile] yeahscience 2012-12-19 02:28 am (UTC)(link)
Ditto, don't even mind saying it unanon. I like kids a lot, I teach kids (with special needs even), but I will never have one of my own. At least not my own genetic offspring.
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Re: Non-fandom confessions/unpopular opinions!

[personal profile] elialshadowpine 2012-12-19 04:37 pm (UTC)(link)
Aside from the fact that I have never wanted kids... this is a factor also. When pretty much everyone of my generation through my dad's family is disabled from either a pain disorder or mental illness or more commonly some combination of both...

I refuse to put somebody else through the hell that I have lived through. Just... no.