[ SECRET POST #2177 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2177 ⌋

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Comments

[(Anonymous)]

I feel like an horrible person.

Pretty much EVERY SINGLE ONE of my friends is an emotional/panicky wreck ALL THE FUCKING TIME. It's just dlfksjdlkfshdljkfh driving me up the walls. I suffer from GAD myself and know where they are coming from and I just don't want to know if someone is having a panic attack or dlksfjhjsdhkjhsd.

Has anyone ever felt the same?

[(Anonymous)]

you might want to start working on getting new friends

no really, start on working on a healthier support network of people so that you don't feel like you're trapped with this group if they don't get their shit together

[pantswarrior]

I can sort of relate. I've been dealing with unexplained increases in anxiety for a while now, and then two of my friends got divorced... and I don't want to take sides, because they're both really awesome guys. But one of them, well, he's been going through some terrifying emotional stuff unrelated to the relationship BEFORE his husband dropped this on him, and thanks to that, he'd kind of isolated himself, and so one day he called me sobbing because he didn't know who else he could even talk to who would listen...

But even GOOD emotions these days tend to overwhelm me and lead to panic attacks, and all I could do was just sit there and listen to him cry and try to take deep breaths, and he asked if I could check in on him and stuff because he's been suicidal, but I just. I don't have the spoons to even take care of myself right now. I love him dearly and owe him - and his ex-husband - an awful lot, I've known them both for 20 years, but... I can't deal. I feel awful about it, if he really doesn't have anyone else to turn to, but I just... can't handle anything emotional, especially something like this where I can see both sides and love both people involved. :/

[lunabee34]

*hugs*

[(Anonymous)]

Nah. I don't know, most of the people I make friends with are either emotionally put-together or at least good in terms of dealing with their problems in a way that's not laden with drama. I think it's partly a choice on my part to stay away from people who cause drama, partly a like-attracts-like thing.

Like anon above said, try to built a support network of solid, reliable people so that you have something to rely on and fall back on.