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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-12-19 06:48 pm

[ SECRET POST #2178 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2178 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Leverage]


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03.
[The Bloggess]


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[Jahmene Douglas/Nicole Scherzinger and James Arthur/Nicole - UK XFactor 2012]


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[Left 4 Dead]


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[Community]


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[The Tribe - Alice&Lex]


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[The Perks of Being a Wallflower]


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[Bioshock Infinite]


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[Inception]


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[Cassandra Clare]


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[Homestuck, MS Paint Adventures]


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[Disney's Sleeping Beauty]


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[Homestuck]


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[xxxHOLiC]


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[Sherlock]


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[Boktai]


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Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 02 pages, 038 secrets from Secret Submission Post #311.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ], [ 1 - ships it ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Not OP

(Anonymous) 2012-12-20 02:21 am (UTC)(link)
Even if you can't be his girlfriend anymore...

Also, you seem to be totally disregarding the fact that he's heterosexual.
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Re: Not OP

[personal profile] citrinesunset 2012-12-20 02:37 am (UTC)(link)
Oh, whoops. I obviously wasn't thinking. (Usually, when I hear about things like this, it involves lesbian relationships where one partner comes out as FTM, so I think I'm stuck in that mode.)

And no, I'm not disregarding the OP's heterosexuality. Not sure how you get that at all. The reality is, this is a complicated situation, and some people have chosen to stay with trans partners even though they still identify as straight or gay/lesbian. It's not a one-size-fits-all situation, and it depends on the people and how they relate to gender when it comes to attraction. Right now, he's only just learned about this, and we really don't know that much about the OP or his partner. Breaking up with a partner of two years is a big deal. There's nothing wrong with leaving his partner because he's straight, but I do think it's hard to make a decision in the midst of the initial emotions, and that it might help to talk and figure out exactly where they both stand.