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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-12-19 06:48 pm

[ SECRET POST #2178 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2178 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Leverage]


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[The Bloggess]


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[Jahmene Douglas/Nicole Scherzinger and James Arthur/Nicole - UK XFactor 2012]


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[Left 4 Dead]


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[Community]


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[The Tribe - Alice&Lex]


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[The Perks of Being a Wallflower]


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[Bioshock Infinite]


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[Inception]


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[Cassandra Clare]


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[Homestuck, MS Paint Adventures]


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[Disney's Sleeping Beauty]


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[Homestuck]


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[xxxHOLiC]


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[Sherlock]


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[Boktai]


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Re: OP

[personal profile] citrinesunset 2012-12-20 02:55 am (UTC)(link)
Oh, another thing:

One thing I would caution you about: I have seen situations where a relationship worked out for a while, but then became strained when the trans partner decided to physically transition. So it can be worth keeping the future in mind, and how different things like that might affect your feelings further.

Re: OP

(Anonymous) 2012-12-20 03:03 am (UTC)(link)
This is what happened to my husband and me when I transitioned. We were okay at first but the physical transition changed things. We're not together anymore (in process of divorce right now) because physical intimacy in a marriage or any relationship where you live together isn't just sexual. He was unnerved by my male body and I became uncomfortable even changing my clothes around him because of it. Sharing a bed was out of the question, and ultimately we just became two guys who were friends with a history we can't really explain to people instead of the romantic couple we had been.