[ SECRET POST #2179 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2179 ⌋

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Comments

Re: Friends with exes

[silverau]

As one of the people who said that... Duh, of course I understand it would be painful to be around someone who doesn't return my feelings. But, I mean, if I loved them I would want to be friends with them anyway. Maybe it's just 'cause all my previous relationships started as friendships, or maybe it's because friendship is more important to me than romance anyway, but in every break-up I've had I felt like losing that person completely would be much worse than the potential pain/awkwardness of turning a nonromantic relationship back into a friendship.

Now, I mean... obviously, if they didn't want a friendship with me anymore, because they just plain didn't like me anymore, I woudn't try to force it. So I'm not trying to say that anyone who is not friends with their exes has problems. I still have an issue with people who say you CAN'T be friends with an ex, as if it wouldn't work out even if both people *wanted* and *tried* to. The only time that's the case is if someone acts like a jerk.

Re: Friends with exes

[diet_poison]

Your whole second paragraph pretty much sums up how I feel about this.

Sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn't. Depends on the personalities of the people involved, what they want in a friend, how the breakup happened, and several other things.