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fandomsecrets2012-12-20 06:44 pm
[ SECRET POST #2179 ]
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Re: Friends with exes
(Anonymous) 2012-12-21 05:53 am (UTC)(link)Of course you wouldn't date someone you wouldn't be friends with, but yes, agreeing with the painful unrequited love. Also, there's no obligation or even need to be friends with them anymore. Moving from dating someone to simply being their friend (especially after a long period of time) is not easy. Redefining the relationship is harder than you think - it's not just you stop having sexy-fun-times with them and the rest all stays the same. There are emotional lines to redraw, and finding that happy medium is tricky.
To all those people who are still besties with their ex - my question is this: are you sure you really broke up with them in the first place?