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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-12-22 03:14 pm

[ SECRET POST #2181 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2181 ⌋

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Because I say the wrong things sometimes

(Anonymous) 2012-12-22 09:34 pm (UTC)(link)
So there's been a lot of drama between two of my best friends lately. We used to all hang out together, but lately they've been fighting incessantly -- and that's when they're willing to talk to each other at all. It hurts to see them at each other's throats, and I feel like if I don't pick a side now, I'll drive myself crazy trying to stay close to both of them. There's nothing I can do about any of it and I just want to curl up in a corner somewhere until they magically become best friends again. But I'm not asking for advice on dealing with it. My question is, would it be tacky to say that I feel like a little kid whose parents are in the middle of a divorce? My parents don't have any marital issues (that I know of), so I'm not sure if it's okay for me to make the comparison.
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Re: Because I say the wrong things sometimes

[personal profile] metal_equine 2012-12-22 09:48 pm (UTC)(link)
Nothing wrong with that comparison. I am a divorce kid and I've been in similar situations which I would liken to that.
I would also like to say do not pick any side but yours. Tell them that their fighting hurts you and that they will have to figure themselves out. I wish you all the best. Hugs if you want them.

Re: Because I say the wrong things sometimes

(Anonymous) 2012-12-22 11:35 pm (UTC)(link)
Kid of divorcees and I'm not offended. (I tend to play off that in situations like that with a deadpan "Mommy, Daddy, stop fighting!" It shuts people up really fast, actually.) I'm with the other nonnie, don't take a side.