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So I knew a guy who I had incredibly compatible kinks with (he's a tall guy who loves to be pegged, I'm a short dom lady). And considering that we met randomly on OKCupid, where neither of us had mentioned these kinks on our profiles, it was a wonderful coincidence. We met up, fucked, and had a great time of it. I tried to keep in contact a bit, but got sort of the cold shoulder, and a few weeks later, I left an angry message just to get it off my chest. That was in August, and I haven't talked to him since.

I am bored, horny, and in the middle of a dry spell. I want to just send him a message along the lines of "Hey, sorry about the weird falling out before, but if you're not seeing anyone at the moment, wanna fuck?" I go back and forth, but as one of my friends pointed out, it's not like I want a relationship with him, just a shag.

Pointers, advice, similar experiences?

Holy crap, that is epic coincidence. It happened to me too a few years ago, so congrats, nonnie!

Anyway, I'd go for it, but I have no shame about these things and figure, what's the worst he'll do, ignore it? You may have more self-preservation by way of ego.

Might as well you have nothing to lose

Are you the sort of person who would deal with rejection well? Or would it affect you deeply?

If the former, go for it.
If the latter, seriously consider whether the possible benefits outweigh the potential, and I feel reasonably likely, negatives.

Agreed. Because this part

I tried to keep in contact a bit, but got sort of the cold shoulder, and a few weeks later, I left an angry message just to get it off my chest.

makes me think that he might not be so eager to see you again.

yeah, if that happened to me I would avoid avoid avoid

Honestly? I kind of doubt that he'll want to. You say that you just want to fuck him, but remember that the last time he heard from you was when you were upset at him for not keeping in touch with you, so he probably won't believe that you just want to fuck him and not have an emotional attachment. It's possible that he won't risk it (also, I hate to say this but there's probably a reason he was ignoring you in the first place)

But hell, you might as well go for it anyway. What have you got to lose? Maybe he's in the middle of a dry spell too and just wants to get laid

I think her odds are poor. I mean, OP isn't necessarily crazy, but if I was him, she'd seem clingy and crazy

And if he's been around a while, he knows you don't fuck the crazy. No matter how good that fuck is.

I expect Op will get no answer. I mean, it's not gonna hurt to ask, but no point in getting hopes up.

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