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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-12-27 06:47 pm

[ SECRET POST #2186 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2186 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[QI]


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[Supernatural]


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[Haven (SyFy)]


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[The Boondocks]


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[Steve Rogers/Tony Stark]


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[Doctor Who]


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[Twilight]


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[Anthony Bourdain: No Reservations]


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[Stephen Colbert and Audra McDonald]


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[Teen Wolf]


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[Calvin & Hobbes]


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[Blue Bloods]


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[BBC Sherlock]


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Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 01 pages, 017 secrets from Secret Submission Post #312.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 1 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.
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[personal profile] visp 2012-12-28 07:08 am (UTC)(link)
Time outs, grounding taking away TV,/video games/phone/internet/etc, giving them extra chores, and above all, not caving to their demands.

Spanking doesn't even make your kid tougher, because you're teaching them that pain is a just punishment, and someone hurting you is someone to submit to, as opposed to something you fight.

(Anonymous) 2012-12-28 03:14 pm (UTC)(link)
I think the not caving thing is really important. I work with kids, and it's not unusual for even the kids who are spanked to eventually get what they want. It's the parents who are consistent and willing to do things the 'hard' way (for example taking a kid home if they're misbehaving in public, even if that means you miss out on the fun thing too) that tend to have the most confident and well behaved youngsters. Those kids know the boundaries and know there will be consequences, but they aren't afraid of their parents and are less likely to try to hide their wrongdoings. They're aware their consequences will be reasonable, logical and proportional to the transgression.
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[personal profile] diet_poison 2012-12-30 05:48 am (UTC)(link)
This is a really good comment.