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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-12-27 06:47 pm

[ SECRET POST #2186 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2186 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[QI]


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[Supernatural]


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[Haven (SyFy)]


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[The Boondocks]


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[Steve Rogers/Tony Stark]


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[Doctor Who]


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[Twilight]


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[Anthony Bourdain: No Reservations]


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[Stephen Colbert and Audra McDonald]


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[Teen Wolf]


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[Calvin & Hobbes]


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[Blue Bloods]


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[BBC Sherlock]


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Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 01 pages, 017 secrets from Secret Submission Post #312.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 1 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.
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[personal profile] diet_poison 2012-12-30 06:26 am (UTC)(link)
The mouth/soap thing is even worse for me. D:

Even hearing a friend of mine talk about his dad punishing his brothers made me so uncomfortable that I had to insist on changing the topic. I don't think he realized that it was really bothering me that much. He said that sometimes when his dad got upset with his brothers, he'd take them into the garage and then he (the friend) couldn't go anywhere in the house without hearing them yell...

Even writing that just...ugh. *shudder*

To me it absolutely crosses a line. Causing physical pain is a whole different CATEGORY than other forms of discipline. In generates fear, plain and simple. That is what it is SUPPOSED to do; that's why it works. Your kid trusts you to keep them SAFE. When you hurt them, you are violating that trust by presenting yourself as a danger. It might not actually be injuring you but your psyche doesn't realize that, especially if you're a child. The brain processes pain as danger and something to fear for a reason.