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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-12-27 06:47 pm

[ SECRET POST #2186 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2186 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[QI]


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[Supernatural]


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[Haven (SyFy)]


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[The Boondocks]


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[Steve Rogers/Tony Stark]


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[Doctor Who]


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[Twilight]


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[Anthony Bourdain: No Reservations]


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[Stephen Colbert and Audra McDonald]


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[Teen Wolf]


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[Calvin & Hobbes]


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[Blue Bloods]


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[BBC Sherlock]


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Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 01 pages, 017 secrets from Secret Submission Post #312.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 1 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

(Anonymous) 2012-12-30 04:59 pm (UTC)(link)
Sure, could be. Does it matter if he's not interested because he's gay or because he's just not feeling it, though? If he's not interested, he's not interested, even if he's not gay (assuming the OP isn't a guy), and the thing to do when someone isn't interested is to back off. (Sorry, I'm just not a fan of the idea that any time a guy isn't all over a girl who shows interest in him that's a weird thing that needs explaining. Applies when the genders are switched around too, come to think of it.)

OP, maybe this guy isn't into you, or maybe he is. I don't know. Like others have pointed out, the best way to find out is to just ask him. But, um, are you sure about that thing about him being perfect for you? Because if he were, then maybe it wouldn't be so much hard work just getting to see him. I mean, sure, I'm just Some Random Person on Fandomsecrets, but it sounds a lot to me like he's actually more like Perfect For You Except. That "Except" bit can be anything, but here it would be "Except we can't even seem to set up a first date because he keeps waffling". After a couple of relationships with PFYE people (well, PFMeE), I've realized those are very frustrating, because it's easy to tell yourself you can totally make it work since everything else is so great. But the sad truth is that unless everything important is at least at some kind of baseline standard of okayness, then the PFYE person is, in fact, Not Perfect For You/Me (whichever applies) At All. Which sucks, and hurts, but in that case it's better to just accept it and try to move on. Easier said than done, sure, but it beats all the other options.

I hope everything works out for the best regardless.