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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-12-28 07:00 pm

[ SECRET POST #2187 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2187 ⌋

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09. [WARNING for rape, sexual assault, gore]

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(Anonymous) 2012-12-29 03:09 am (UTC)(link)
And you can't tell me that women wouldn't do the same thing if they lived in such a society. Men tend to hold the power so they abuse it, but don't even pretend that if women held power they wouldn't wield it as well.

(Anonymous) 2012-12-29 03:19 am (UTC)(link)
What society, in the history of the world, has had the women in power raping men? I'm not talking about your fantasy bondage land.

(Anonymous) 2012-12-29 03:28 am (UTC)(link)
I'm saying IF. There's not a lot of cases where women would be able to, obviously. But there are numerous examples of women raping or sexually abusing men, so you can't pretend that a woman would or could not rape someone.

(Anonymous) 2012-12-29 03:42 am (UTC)(link)
What, exactly, is your point? The original point is that men in a society that condones and intstitutionalizes rape will most likely rape. Not that women in some fictional Amazonian society will rape men. They probably would. But it's never going to be a reality. A culture that tolerates rape is and has been many times over. Romanticising the mindset on a TV show is what is happening on GoT making it easier to watch and fantasize about. I have no doubts at all that many more men than will admit would rape Dany if they had cultural sanction to do so.

(Anonymous) 2012-12-29 06:00 pm (UTC)(link)
Romanticising the mindset on a TV show is what is happening on GoT making it easier to watch and fantasize about.
This. Thank you.

OP

(Anonymous) 2012-12-29 03:31 am (UTC)(link)
nayrt
you: WHAT IF THIS
ayrt: WELL WHAT IF THAT
you: DOESN'T COUNT IT'S NOT WHAT I SAID DODGE QUESTION DODGE QUESTION
Seriously, as a woman and a firm believer in gender equality, it always pisses me off when people act like women are perfect angels who never have and never would be abusers. Have we had less chance and power to do so, historically speaking? Yes. Have we NEVER done it? Of course we have. Would we do it more often if our culture made it acceptable for women to be abusive as a matter of course? Of course, because power corrupts no matter who holds it.

(Anonymous) 2012-12-29 03:57 am (UTC)(link)
They did dodge the question and tried to turn it around to some fantastical scenario that has nothing to do with reality.

(Anonymous) 2012-12-29 05:34 pm (UTC)(link)
can't tell if you're anon i replied to or not...if you are, then try reading my comment or something, good grief
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[personal profile] fuchsiascreams 2012-12-29 11:18 pm (UTC)(link)
Agreed.

(Anonymous) 2012-12-29 03:33 am (UTC)(link)
Actually they don't. Matriarchies do exist though they are uncommon. They went unrecognized for a long time because people kept looking for Amazon country and didn't recognize the communal reality of what those societies were actually like. Matriarchy is not the simple gender flip of patriarchy, it turns out.