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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-12-28 07:00 pm

[ SECRET POST #2187 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2187 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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09. [WARNING for rape, sexual assault, gore]

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(Anonymous) 2012-12-29 10:07 am (UTC)(link)
Men are likely to rape if boys and girls alike are taught that it is acceptable behaviour; i.e., if society accepts rape. Some might not, but most will. Consider the South African statistics (from the sexual violence in SA wikipedia article): A 2009 survey found one in four South African men from KwaZulu-Natal and Eastern Cape Provinces admitted to raping someone. And that's just those who admitted it! Nearly three out of four men who admitted rape stated they had first forced a woman or girl into sex before the age of 20, and nearly one in ten admitted doing so before the age of 10.

Most modern men have had it inculcated in them that women are human beings, that consent is important, from earliest childhood. Women are also taught that they have value. I think a lot of people don't realise how much of this is learned behaviour. If rape is a trivial matter in society, and women are viewed by most men as chattel, then yes, most men will rape, and if it is considered a crime, it will only be to the men who own her.

People who say things like "men aren't animals!" seem to forget that all humans are, in fact, animals; there are animals that rape.

Of course women rape, too. If the situations were exactly reversed, I don't doubt that most women would rape and consider it trivial.

People here seem to have a very optimistic view of human nature. We've progressed very far to get to the point we are at now, and we have a long way to go yet. We might even get there eventually if we aren't all wiped out first.

(Anonymous) 2012-12-29 04:38 pm (UTC)(link)
This is a good comment.

(Anonymous) 2012-12-30 05:33 am (UTC)(link)
And now I'm depressed :(
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