[ SECRET POST #2188 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2188 ⌋

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Comments

[(Anonymous)]

So I have a crush on a married man. This wouldn't bother me so much if it weren't for the fact that I only ever get crushes on guys my own age. The fact that I've gotten old enough so that people my age are married...that's what creeps me out. I still feel 13. People I've known since childhood are getting married and having babies and moving up in careers and I'm still 13. It feels so wrong.

[elaminator]

People I've known since childhood are getting married and having babies and moving up in careers and I'm still 13.

Yea...I know the feeling. It feels like most people from my childhood are married with kids now, and I've never even had a relationship. I don't particularly want one, but I get some strange looks when I mention I'm unattached.

[(Anonymous)]

I think some folks would envy you for still feeling "thirteen," though I'm sure it has a big set of baggage attached. Do you feel as if you're not living up to what's expected of people your age? Do you feel dependent? Helpless or inactive? Infantilized?

[(Anonymous)]

Yeah, I'm somewhere around the mental age of 16 or so, so I know how you feel. It's strange to me when coworkers are younger than me, and people my age are talking about their kids. 24 is so young! I still feel like a little kid! Even if I wanted children, I don't feel anywhere near experienced enough to handle that sort of responsibility, so it sort of baffles me that others my age feel that they are :|a I mean, I guess if you want kids, it's different, but I'm jealous of anybody that apparently has their life together enough to plan for a baby at 24.

[(Anonymous)]

I'm the same! I'm nearing 30 and still feel like I'm 17 or 18...

[(Anonymous)]

This is me. I'm in my 30s now and I somehow missed the maturity train when I was growing up. I didn't worry because I assumed another one would come by, but it never has. Not for me, anyway. Maybe I wouldn't mind so much if I didn't feel like everyone pities my parents for having such a dud child.

[(Anonymous)]

Being attracted to him is fine, acting on it is not.

[(Anonymous)]

I know the feeling of feeling much younger than I'm supposed to and watching everyone around me do all those grown up things like getting married, having children and doing things that are getting them ahead in life.

While the person I have a crush on isn't married, she is several years older than I am and really moving up in her career, which makes me acutely aware of being younger and so damn inexperienced. That I'm crushing like I did like back when I was 13 isn't helping either.

[(Anonymous)]

oh god, I know exactly how you feel. The best advice that can be given is to try and focus on yourself instead of worrying about other people Easier said then done, I know, but it does help. No use in fixating on married men or the marital status of people you know. Also remember that they have just as many problems if not more then you do, marriage and babies doesn't solve that.