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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-12-29 02:53 pm

[ SECRET POST #2188 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2188 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2012-12-30 03:47 am (UTC)(link)
Of course, then there's the question about bisexual people who AREN'T attracted to folks outside the gender binary, being made to feel bad about themselves. I am bi and attracted to people on all parts of the spectrum except the far extreme of American "male" (and that's mostly due to past baggage with hyper-macho men). But I also know people who identify as bisexual but would only want to date someone who identified as either male or female, and whose sex matched their gender.

And I see nothing wrong with that. Pansexual forces those people OUT of that box. It is no better than telling a homosexual that they must be heterosexual, or vice versa.

Let people choose how they want to identify themselves. I mean, sure, some words don't deserve to be reclaimed. But something that has a perfectly valid neutral meaning doesn't need to be destroyed based solely on it being un-inclusive. IMO.