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Re: ayrt
(Anonymous) 2013-01-06 07:29 pm (UTC)(link)Well, if your coping methods came from talking with your therapist, that's an excellent testimonial for NOT talking with a therapist. Or at the very least, not YOUR therapist, because hon, your coping methods SUCK SHIT.
Someone with excellent coping methods, someone who's actually overcome the traumas of their past to become a healthy human being, doesn't need to occupy a special privileged place above others in order to function. You? You spew post after post of your opinions on the subject and expect everyone to pay heed - even as you say "I have no interest in hearing you or anyone else try to justify this." That's not a healthy person. A healthy person can treat others as equals, and doesn't need a blatant double standard like that.
"It's easier to wear slippers than to carpet the world." Familiar with that saying? Understand what it means? You sure show no signs that you do. A good therapist would help you understand boundaries; understand that if OP, a stranger you don't know, someone who might not even be in the same country as you, plays games of "Let's Pretend" with other consenting adults behind closed doors, it isn't even your business, let alone something you should be obsessed with broadcasting your horror of. You are trying to carpet the world, something you wouldn't feel the need to do if your therapist had in fact taught you decent coping skills.
I believe you're sincere: I think that you really do think that you understand the difference between mentally healthy people and mentally unhealthy people, and feel confident in your dogma that having any sort of acceptance for even fictional incest automatically puts one in the "mentally unhealthy" category. But your own behavior is not that of a stable, mentally healthy person, so I don't know why anyone would think that you actually are some sort of expert whose thunderous pronouncements actually carry some semblance of weight.