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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-01-02 06:55 pm

[ SECRET POST #2192 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2192 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2013-01-03 01:21 am (UTC)(link)
sorry, i should have been more clear. i didn't mean the behaviour of pressuring people. i meant the behaviour of wanting to be sociable and be around others.

while introverts don't pressure extroverts much, they can be fairly snobby/elitist and mean by putting them down for being "shallow" and "wasting their time on meaningless things" while lifting themselves up as being "above those petty things".

(Anonymous) 2013-01-03 01:59 am (UTC)(link)
Frankly, I'm introvert - so much so that going to parties literally leaves me falling asleep on the floor because of how drained I get. When people keep pressuring me to go/declaring me ~weird~ and making 'Omg! You left your cave! Does the light hurt your eyes?' jokes on the rare occasions I do go to a party after I've explained why I don't, yes. I will get pissy and call something like that a 'waste of my time' when it's obvious that the other person isn't going to stop. Why? Because, as a rule, I'm doormat. So doing something like that usually startles them enough to start backing the fuck off - and if they've gotten me to a point of snapping* then they freaking deserve it.

*Just a point, I'm known to put up with near constant verbal abuse for days without snapping, so I'm not flying off the handle at a moments notice when I do this, and I'll have asked several times for them to back off.

(Anonymous) 2013-01-03 02:12 am (UTC)(link)
i can understand something like this if there are people who are directly annoying and pressuring you to do something like that. what i don't understand are the people who aren't being pressured like that, but just mock extroverts for elitist reasons. if i were you, though, i'd react exactly the same and consider it justified.