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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-01-02 06:55 pm

[ SECRET POST #2192 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2192 ⌋

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[personal profile] diet_poison 2013-01-03 05:41 pm (UTC)(link)
I find that a little weird I guess since the vast majority of people I've met, of whatever personality type, are really reasonable about other people living however they want. But I get that my experience =/= everyone's.

I'm really sorry you've had those experiences. It sounds like you've met some really inconsiderate people.

re: your last paragraph: I really hate that kind of argument. I hate the "well people are gonna do it, so that makes it okay" attitude. It doesn't make it ok. Lumping people in with a group - especially a group we don't even choose to be in - by making broad generalizations that are obviously hostile is not a good thing to do regardless of how easy or convenient it is.

I completely understand that you (general you here) will be more focused on the people who have had a bigger and more negative impact on you, but it really does not take that much effort to clarify that you're not talking about ALL THE HORRIBLE EXTROVERTS.

ETA: I have been close friends with introverts almost my entire life so it has always kind of been a non-issue for me that some people want to spend more time alone and not be as high energy as me in social settings. I might need to be gently reminded that they need to recharge in certain situations, but I would never say "why don't you get out more?? You must be so bored!" or anything like that.
Edited 2013-01-03 17:44 (UTC)