[ SECRET POST #2193 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2193 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

01.
[GunnerKrigg Court]


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02.
[The Avengers]


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03.
[French & Saunders]


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04.
[X-Men/Marvel Universe]


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05.
[Tron: Uprising]


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06.
[Kagaku Ninjatai Gatchaman]


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07.
[How I Met Your Mother]


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08.
[The X-Files/Fox Mulder]


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09.
[Homestuck]


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10.
[True Grit]


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11.
[Saya no Uta]


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12.
[The Silmarillion]


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13.
[Homestuck]


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14.
[Supernatural]


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Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 01 pages, 015 secrets from Secret Submission Post #313.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Comments

Re: weird dreams you can't shake in real life

[(Anonymous)]

Well, I mean, not to psychoanalyze, but having dreams about your mother trapping you somewhere right after she's moved in with you... I mean, the conclusions kind of draw themselves, don't they? Not to be impertinent or anything.

All I can say re: the dreams is give it some time - for me the psychic shock of the dream usually fades after a while and you can get back to living. If the dreams go on, I'm not sure what I'd do. Good luck.

Re: weird dreams you can't shake in real life

[anonymouslyyours]

I was living with her before I moved out. We were apart maybe three weeks and I was checking in almost everyday. The main source of our conflict has been resolved since so I just don't get why this is happening now instead of the practically five years prior?

Mostly I don't care why it's happening just that it is and I don't want it to. I'm not used to things getting to me like this.

Maybe you're right and I should just give it some more time. I'm just so tired. :(

Re: weird dreams you can't shake in real life

[(Anonymous)]

DA

I am just crazy speculating here and could be way off but....maybe it's happening now because you thought you got away -not got away like fled, but you were on your own in your own place for, I'm guessing, the first time- and now that's over and she's back with you. So maybe your brain is thinking something along the lines of 'I'm trapped/She's trapping me' - hence the dreams. Again, could be way off and I'm just throwing this out there.

How you deal with things is personal and up to the individual, but for me figuring out the why helps a great deal in figuring out how to deal with the emotions.

Time heals all wounds and all that. So time could help. Maybe some meditation or relaxation techniques could help?

Re: weird dreams you can't shake in real life

[anonymouslyyours]

There's probably something to this. I kind of dismissed this when I thought of it initially because while I'm feeling incredibly trapped she's not technically the reason but now I realize that I very much blame her for it.

Mostly I coped previously because I had an out. One that's no longer an option so I guess sucking it up is a lot harder when there's no deadline to fixate on?

Re: weird dreams you can't shake in real life

[lunabee34]

And even if other things are making you feel trapped as well, I think often our subconscious minds choose one object to focus on because it's handier to have one avatar to focus on.

*hugs*

I'm sorry you're feeling creeped out by her when you know she's not going to do anything to hurt you or that you need to be afraid of.

Could you talk to her about your feelings? Would that be enough closure to stop the dream cycle?