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⌈ Secret Post #2193 ⌋

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[GunnerKrigg Court]

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[The Avengers]

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[French & Saunders]

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[X-Men/Marvel Universe]

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[Tron: Uprising]

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[Kagaku Ninjatai Gatchaman]

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[How I Met Your Mother]

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[The X-Files/Fox Mulder]

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[Homestuck]

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[True Grit]

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[Saya no Uta]

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[The Silmarillion]

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[Homestuck]

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[Supernatural]

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If you have trouble with talking, maybe you can write it down? And then either give it to your parents or read it aloud?

Also, you don't need to tell your father that your mom has a boyfriend. That's your mom's job, it's her responsibility. If hiding it to your father bothers you, ask your mom to tell him, you shouldn't have to deal with this.

I hope things will turn out okay for you!

ah I always thought I have to mention it.
My father's also not really interested in it I think? He enver asked anything like that, I think if he would have asked I would have said it.
it's been years and I feel like an idiot telling stuff like "oh btw mom has a boyfriend since x years and remember that vacation? yea we went together...)

The problem is often that I don't have a problem with telling stuff..but making the first step.

^- OP.

and thank you too for your words♥

about writing a letter:
a friend once said me this too. but for some weird reason I feel like.. my parents could be sad/disappointed that their daughter can't speak to them normally...

uhg this sounds utterly stupid.

What I do is write a letter that only I will see. That way I can be as honest as I need to be. It's usually really disorganized and rambly but that makes it easier to organize my thoughts for later, when I confront them in person.

What the hell? Of course anon should tell about the boyfriend (if the parents are still together.) It doesn't even have to do with it being her parents, it's a decent person thing and what anyone in the situation should do. Tell her mom that if she doesn't tell first, OP will.

DA

I see where you are coming from, but it has the potential of putting the OP into an even worse emotional place than she is right now.

I think she should try the other stuff and herself into a more manageable state, and then think about whether she wants to tell or not. As she is right now? It's just one burden after another that she is juggling and being overwhelmed by. She needs to put all that in order first so she can decide without everything else hogging her attention or at least draining her emotionally.

AYRT

From what I understood, OP's parents are not living together and not together anymore.

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