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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-01-04 06:36 pm

[ SECRET POST #2194 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2194 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[The Hobbit]


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[Good Omens / Girls Next Door]


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[The Hobbit, Thorin Oakenshield]


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07. [SPOILERS for Wreck-it Ralph]
http://www.abload.de/img/974137-king_candywrecfbk7z.png
[linked because porn, illustrated]


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08. [SPOILERS for The Office]



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09. [SPOILERS for Monsters, Inc.]



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10. [SPOILERS for The Hobbit]



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11. [WARNING for incest]



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12. [WARNING for suicide]

[One Direction]


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13. [WARNING for shotacon]



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14. [WARNING for sexual harassment?]



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15. [WARNING for depression, suicide]



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Secrets Left to Post: 00 pages, 000 secrets from Secret Submission Post #313.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
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Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Online dating

(Anonymous) 2013-01-05 12:19 am (UTC)(link)
Any experiences? I just opened an OKcupid profile but I'm still feeling self conscious about it.

Re: Online dating

(Anonymous) 2013-01-05 12:23 am (UTC)(link)
I've repeatedly opened and closed my online dating profile, so I wish you better luck, and solider nerves, than me.

Re: Online dating

(Anonymous) 2013-01-05 12:33 am (UTC)(link)
I've been on a couple of dates, and usually gotten call-backs for each one, but nothing's really stuck. Don't feel self-conscious, but, y'know, limit your expectations?

Re: Online dating

(Anonymous) 2013-01-05 12:36 am (UTC)(link)
Online dating depends a lot on your location, and on the site you use. I've heard more bad than good about OKcupid, but your experience might be different. :)
caecilia: (tuna tuna tuna tuna tuna)

Re: Online dating

[personal profile] caecilia 2013-01-05 12:51 am (UTC)(link)
I've only met one person on OkCupid that I felt comfortable meeting up with. We never dated but we hang out sometimes and she's pretty cool. My friend met his current partner through OkC and they've been together for about a year and a half and have a place together. So I guess...ymmv? Good luck!
insanenoodlyguy: (Default)

Re: Online dating

[personal profile] insanenoodlyguy 2013-01-05 04:33 am (UTC)(link)
a few of us below have had better stories. Lets hope op can say the same eventually.
caecilia: (uncomfortable signs)

Re: Online dating

[personal profile] caecilia 2013-01-05 05:35 am (UTC)(link)
what's wrong with my story

Re: Online dating

(Anonymous) 2013-01-05 05:45 am (UTC)(link)
nothing is ever good enough for insanenoodlyguy

sobs

rocks back and forth in fetal position
caecilia: (kanaya stare)

Re: Online dating

[personal profile] caecilia 2013-01-05 06:09 am (UTC)(link)
One of us is missing a joke here and I have a horrible feeling it's me.

But shhh, it'll be okay.

Re: Online dating

(Anonymous) 2013-01-05 01:08 am (UTC)(link)
I've never used it, but from what I hear don't expect miracles.
stuck4aname: (Default)

Re: Online dating

[personal profile] stuck4aname 2013-01-05 02:51 am (UTC)(link)
Can't speak from my own experience, but one of my old teachers met his wife through online dating. So, you know, it works sometimes.

Re: Online dating

[personal profile] siliconsara 2013-01-05 03:29 am (UTC)(link)
One of my friends met her husband on OkCupid.

I say go for it.

Re: Online dating

(Anonymous) 2013-01-05 04:29 am (UTC)(link)
The stigma of online dating is fading and more people are signing up. There's no reason to feel self-conscious about it and with more people using it, the chances of meeting someone are much higher. It varies by area, but overall it's much better than it was 10 years ago.
insanenoodlyguy: (Default)

Re: Online dating

[personal profile] insanenoodlyguy 2013-01-05 04:31 am (UTC)(link)
Me and chard met on Okcupid. So there's hope! Good luck!

Re: Online dating

(Anonymous) 2013-01-05 05:48 am (UTC)(link)
It's funny that the two biggest assholes on fs met each other through a dating website. Now everything makes perfect sense.

Re: Online dating

(Anonymous) 2013-01-05 06:40 am (UTC)(link)
omg you and childings are an item? when did that happen?

Re: Online dating

(Anonymous) 2013-01-05 06:52 am (UTC)(link)
DA

oh man thank you I needed that laugh
sootyowl: (Default)

Re: Online dating

[personal profile] sootyowl 2013-01-05 04:54 am (UTC)(link)
I set up an okcupid account while a ago and am going on two dates this week (first tomorrow) It's totally nerve wracking. I have no idea if either will workout, but I'll give it a try. Just make sure to meet them in open places (I'm doing coffee for both. Cheap, easy, and and exit is always available).

(This is what I found for men. If you are contacting women, the thing mentioned next may not be valid.) I find that if a guy says "my woman at anytime" seriously, don't talk to them. Also, at least in my area, guys have generally been nice. I have only had one problem and it resolved itself nicely as I never spoke to him again. Don't feel like its necessary to message every guy who messages you back. And look at what questions they have answered and their responses. They can be very revealing. Also I never respond to anyone who doesn't use capitals and doesn't say more then a "hey what's up" in their message.

Don't know if that helped, but if you have any other questions, ask away.