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fandomsecrets2013-01-07 06:25 pm
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[ SECRET POST #2197 ]
⌈ Secret Post #2197 ⌋
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Re: Counselling reposted
(Anonymous) 2013-01-08 10:23 pm (UTC)(link)sorry for double posting
Re: Counselling reposted
(Anonymous) 2013-01-08 10:59 pm (UTC)(link)When I convinced myself to in for counselling, I weighed the pros and cons - what did I have to loose by going to counselling? What did I have to gain? After listing everything out, I realized that even if I didn't need NEED the counselling session, talking with the cousellor was worth it just for the professional, unbiased view of the issues I had. Friends and relatives are great sources of support but at the end of the day, they all have their bias and they were emotionally involved in the issues I had.
I don't know what you want the counselling session for, but it sounds like you do need it. Let's say didn't go. You'll definitely regret it next week. But if you went, it would be a weight off your shoulders even if you did't get anything out of it. Because you made the effort.
Counsellors are professionals. They're paid to counsel people. If you don't go in tomorrow, someone else will. But it's not like you're fighting with that someone else for that same time slot - I'm sure if someone really really needed a session, the counsellor's office would make arrangements. And if you want to make sure you're not wasting everyone's time, write down the things you want to bring up (or some other methods of prep so you know exactly the topics you want to talk about) and answer the counsellor honestly.
It's not a waste of time if you book a session. It's a waste of time if you don't go in for the session you booked or if you lie to the counsellor.
Does that help?
Re: Counselling reposted
(Anonymous) 2013-01-08 11:15 pm (UTC)(link)Re: Counselling reposted
(Anonymous) 2013-01-08 11:26 pm (UTC)(link)