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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-01-11 07:31 pm

[ SECRET POST #2201 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2201 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Monty Python]


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[Umineko no Naku Koro Ni]


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09. [SPOILERS for Arkham City]



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10. [SPOILERS for Django Unchained]



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11. [SPOILERS for Evil Dead Remake/Reboot]



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12. [SPOILERS for Doctor Who]



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13. [WARNING for rape]

[Skyfall]


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Re: Non-fandom secrets

(Anonymous) 2013-01-12 04:43 pm (UTC)(link)
My only issue with demisexuality is the fact that it's not an actual sexual orientation, but rather a phenomenon that masks sexual orientation (ie. it's really damn hard to figure out if you're straight, gay, bi, or otherwise if you only ever experience sexual attraction under uncommonly restricted circumstances).

However, I can definitely say that as an idea it exists, as I was rather surprised to experience it myself. I've identified as nonsexual/asexual since I was in junior high and realized that I was equally unattracted to both girls and boys in general. I shifted into 'I have no idea what the fuck I am' in my 20s because I developed a hypothetical interest in having sex some day just to see what it was like, but still lacked the interest or drive to actually pursue a relationship with anyone sexually or romantically... Then I developed a crush on a friend, and she reciprocated, and I started developing urges for intimacy that started as just a want to cuddle or hold hands and then BAM! Out of nowhere, she became the first person I've ever felt sexual attraction to.

I don't identify as demisexual, though. I still mostly consider myself 'I have no idea what the fuck I am', though, because for whatever reason I feel kind of weird and appropriative identifying as a lesbian when so far it's only one woman that I've ever been sexually attracted to?

It's not really something I bring up outside of conversations like these, though, because I don't really give a fuck about my sexuality beyond knowing that I'm in love with my girlfriend.