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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-01-14 06:57 pm

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chardmonster: (Default)

Re: I HATE IT WHEN PEOPLE CUT LOOSE

[personal profile] chardmonster 2013-01-15 03:06 am (UTC)(link)
Well yeah. Being an alcoholic is awful.

For the record, I went to college with the teetotalers and know how they behave. I'd seen them turn down social occasions before because someone had mentioned bringing beer.

But thanks for questioning my anecdote about people I know and you don't without basis! Why are the shitty people always anon?
Edited 2013-01-15 03:07 (UTC)
diet_poison: (Default)

Re: I HATE IT WHEN PEOPLE CUT LOOSE

[personal profile] diet_poison 2013-01-15 03:13 am (UTC)(link)
anon wasn't being shitty at all.
chardmonster: (Default)

Re: I HATE IT WHEN PEOPLE CUT LOOSE

[personal profile] chardmonster 2013-01-15 03:15 am (UTC)(link)
But thanks for assigning the scapegoats.

???

(Anonymous) 2013-01-15 08:38 am (UTC)(link)
That was calling you out on your unjustified and very clear assumptions, bb. As for "I've been to college and I know how teetotallers act" - your experience =/= reality. Yours is the shitty attitude here.
diet_poison: (Default)

Re: I HATE IT WHEN PEOPLE CUT LOOSE

[personal profile] diet_poison 2013-01-15 01:22 pm (UTC)(link)
That sounds kind of overdefensive but not really shitty. *shrug* Your earlier statements on this topic were kinda rude so I can see why someone would react that way, anyway. If I were one of those "people who never drinks ever" I would have been pretty offended.
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Re: I HATE IT WHEN PEOPLE CUT LOOSE

[identity profile] childings.livejournal.com 2013-01-15 03:35 am (UTC)(link)
Why are the shitty people always anon?

Because they hate being called out for being shitty, god forbid they use an actual identifier so people know how shitty they are

Re: I HATE IT WHEN PEOPLE CUT LOOSE

(Anonymous) 2013-01-15 03:44 am (UTC)(link)
Again, pretty sure that has more to do with them being party-poopers and less with them being teetotalers.

Re: I HATE IT WHEN PEOPLE CUT LOOSE

(Anonymous) 2013-01-15 04:02 am (UTC)(link)
For the record, I went to college with the teetotalers and know how they behave. I'd seen them turn down social occasions before because someone had mentioned bringing beer.

Maybe some sober people just don't enjoy hanging around a group of drunk people?

Re: I HATE IT WHEN PEOPLE CUT LOOSE

(Anonymous) 2013-01-15 04:44 am (UTC)(link)
This. Someone brings beer. Other people also brings beer. They play drinking games. Three hours later, half the group will be completely smashed and crying or vomiting or pissing everywhere.

Unless I know for sure I can leave before before things get to that stage or I know the people going to the party are responsible drinkers, I'm not going to be there.

Re: I HATE IT WHEN PEOPLE CUT LOOSE

(Anonymous) 2013-01-15 07:30 am (UTC)(link)
I lived in a residence hall all through college (and worked as a resident for a year and a half), and my university was pretty well-known as a big drinking school. After graduating, I never wanted to be around groups of drunk people again. At my age most people know their limits by now and usually don't get sloshed, but it's still really uncomfortable for me to be around drunk people.

Also, I've known a couple people over the years who grew up with alcoholic parents and now alcohol is a major trigger for them, so they avoid gatherings where there might be drinking for that reason.

I don't doubt that there are people who are self-righteous about their not-drinking, but there are plenty of us who have our reasons for not wanting to be around people who've been drinking, and since we don't really want to be party poopers and make everyone else stop having fun for our sakes, it's just easier if we avoid events where we think drinking is going to happen.
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Re: I HATE IT WHEN PEOPLE CUT LOOSE

[personal profile] diet_poison 2013-01-15 01:24 pm (UTC)(link)
It's interesting to me how polarizing this issue is. =( I wish people would just live and let live.

(that's directed at this thread, not you...this is actually a really good comment)

Re: I HATE IT WHEN PEOPLE CUT LOOSE

(Anonymous) 2013-01-15 01:31 pm (UTC)(link)
THIS.

Re: I HATE IT WHEN PEOPLE CUT LOOSE

(Anonymous) 2013-01-15 09:24 pm (UTC)(link)
Very much this. There are a few alcoholics in my family, one of whom absolutely terrified me once. I don't drink and I don't like going to parties and strange places where there will be drinking, but that's not because I'm judging anyone, it's because I really don't want to end up in that place again.

Re: I HATE IT WHEN PEOPLE CUT LOOSE

(Anonymous) 2013-01-15 11:19 pm (UTC)(link)
That still doesn't explain how it's supposedly their fault no one else turned up.