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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-01-14 06:57 pm

[ SECRET POST #2204 ]


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[personal profile] diet_poison 2013-01-15 04:50 pm (UTC)(link)
To be fair sometimes people get shit for not engaging in lots of casual sex and of course there's virgin-shaming but that's not any more common, I'd guess, as people getting crap (mainly from older/more conservative people) for having more liberal sexual choices. Either way it's not okay, but it's also not comparable to someone being threatened in ways described above for having a sexuality other than "straight".

So basically, yeah, ia.
Edited 2013-01-15 16:51 (UTC)

(Anonymous) 2013-01-15 05:20 pm (UTC)(link)
That also depends on gender. A woman who is cisgendered and heterosexual is not going to get any flack for not having casual sex. It's pretty much expected for women in western society to not have an open or casual sex life.

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[personal profile] diet_poison 2013-01-15 06:12 pm (UTC)(link)
I don't know about "not getting any" - I think that completely depends on who you're hanging out with. But yes, I do completely agree that there is much more pressure on men to be sexually active, and more judgment on women for doing the same.

(Anonymous) 2013-01-15 08:40 pm (UTC)(link)
If you don't have sex, you're a prude. If you do, you're a whore. Women and men of ALL sexualities have to worry about being raped (it's not exclusive to any one in particular).