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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-01-25 07:38 pm

[ SECRET POST #2215 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2215 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.


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02.
[Rose McGowan]


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03.
[Puella Magi Madoka Magica]


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[Fringe]


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[Touhou Project / Axis Powers Hetalia: Romaheta / Kuroshitsuji / Homestuck]


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[Being Human UK]


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[Three Kingdoms 2010]


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[Legend]


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11. http://i.imgur.com/fO4RU.jpg
[linked for kind of porny/suggestive postures of possibly underage character]


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12. http://i.imgur.com/T28p7.jpg
[linked for illustrated porny x 2 (clothed, but that doesnt do much)]


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13.
[Downton Abbey]


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[Xia Junsu/Tarantellera]


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16. [SPOILERS for Downton Abbey]



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17. [SPOILERS for Homestuck]



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18. [WARNING for abuse]



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19. [WARNING for abuse]



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20. [WARNING for incest]



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Notes:

Late day at work, sorry.

Secrets Left to Post: 00 pages, 000 secrets from Secret Submission Post #316.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 1 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 1 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ], [ 1 - template ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

(Anonymous) 2013-01-26 09:12 pm (UTC)(link)
Yeah, with you on other close relationships dredging up stuff from how you related to your parents, and vice versa.

Although you can't count on significant others to point out what you need to know. Undetected home abuse often but not always results in a rather warped idea of what love feels like. It would be funny, if it weren't so sad.

As long as we're sharing stories, my first boyfriend was unreasonbly possesive (a character flaw that he copped to, and I was willing to tolerate). There was this one time when he found out that, months before I'd met or dated him, I'd had an all-consuming crush on another guy. Said crush didn't result in anything more than angsty writing on my computer about how my feelings were going haywire and I couldn't study. He freaked out, sat me down, and started yelling and trying to interrogate me about what happened and why hadn't I told him. I answered his questions (to the extent that I was comfortable doing so), tried to reassure him and calm him down, and then forgot about it. Later on, when he'd regained some perspective, he was horrified that I'd let him scream at me about something that was basically my business. I was sort of like "Why would I be mad at you? You were feeling miserable, and we're in a relationship, so it makes perfect sense that you brought your fear and anger to me." At which point, he said something along the lines of "I didn't bring my feelings to you. I made them your problem." Which is true, but I come from a family where you're supposed to listen to what your parents are saying no matter how furious, insulting, or belittling they're being. The fact that maybe that wasn't healthy honestly hadn't even crossed my mind. It - I thought that's what you did for someone you loved.

(Anonymous) 2013-01-28 11:37 am (UTC)(link)
I'm inclined to think I'll go too far in the other direction - if I find myself getting lambasted by a partner, I'm more likely to react with 'Okay, you're evidently the kind of person who Does This Shit, and I swore I'd never spend my life shackled to another person who Does This Shit, so I'm out.'

But healthy couples do fight, and some people who yell aren't doing it out of pathological cruelty, and the trick will be figuring out which is which.