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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-01-29 06:39 pm

[ SECRET POST #2219 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2219 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Oofuri]


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[Adventure Time]


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[How I Met Your Mother]


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[Gangnam Style/PSY]


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[Arthur Conan Doyle]


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[Sherlock]


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[Richard Armitage]


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[Bioshock 1&2, Heavy Rain, Silent Hill 1&3, Alias, Taken 1&2, Once Upon A Time]


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[Lizzie Bennet Diaries]


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[Steam Powered Giraffe]


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[Buffy the Vampire Slayer]


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[Ghost World/Safety Not Guaranteed]


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[Patalliro]


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[Bones]


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[Hetalia]


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[Dynasty Warriors]


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Re: Relationship advice :(

(Anonymous) 2013-01-30 02:05 am (UTC)(link)
ayrt

Hm, his answer is a bit of a non-sequitur to "What if we had two different but neighboring apartments?", unless your proposal included you staying where you were and he would move to you. If it did, that's a pretty definitive limiter on options that I think would cause understandable balking from most people. If not, then -- personally (and either way), I would ask for reasons why not outside of "that's not how I envisioned my future", and let him think about it if he needs to. Because even and especially if the idea itself is something utterly foreign to him, if he's willing to think it through rather than dismiss it out of hand entirely, that's a big thing (and the same goes for your consideration of his proposal to cohabitate). I think being able to lay out both your priorities together can be a good way to sort them and figure out where the relationship itself lies among them.