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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-01-30 06:40 pm

[ SECRET POST #2220 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2220 ⌋

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[Hotel Transylvania]


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[Skyfall]


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[Love Actually]


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(Anonymous) 2013-01-31 04:35 am (UTC)(link)
It depends on how bad you think it is to make someone feel uncomfortable. She thought the guy didn't like her, and that was a significant problem seeing as how he was her fiance/husband's best friend. Sure, he was struggling with his feelings, but it's not that hard to NOT make someone think you hate their guts. I agree the Nice Guy (TM) label doesn't really fit, though.

And while the filming itself may not have been illicit, come on... how is it NOT creepy to find out that even though you thought someone was filming a happy crowd scene, they were just focusing solely on one person in it again and again, cutting out everyone else including her new husband? Major icks, there.
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[personal profile] nyxelestia 2013-01-31 05:42 am (UTC)(link)
Like I said, as far as we know he was polite to her, he just didn't talk to her much and avoided talking to her if he could. Her fiance probably has a lot of friends and it's doubtful she'll get along with all of them, and as a grown adult she'll know that going on. If someone doesn't like you but is polite, anyway, and keeps interaction to a minimum to avoid horrific awkwardness or fighting, then I fail to see how that's dickish behavior.

I spend much of my time at school in a large group of friends, and that means there are some of us who don't get along that well, for various reasons. So what do we do? We don't talk to each other. That way, there's no extensive awkwardness and no fighting. We keep the peace and we focus on the people who we are friends with and get along well with. Not everyone gets along with everyone, and it's arrogant to assume that everyone should.

I can see how the video thing can get creepy, though. Like I said, it's kind of a fine line based on the gray area of IntentionsTM. I, personally, don't find that sort of thing creepy, but I can see how others might find it so.
Edited 2013-01-31 05:45 (UTC)

(Anonymous) 2013-01-31 06:40 am (UTC)(link)
The wedding video was done by professionals, not him.