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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-02-01 07:11 pm

[ SECRET POST #2222 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2222 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2013-02-02 12:59 am (UTC)(link)
But if you say "my older brother" then wouldn't people naturally assume that it's someone who was always male? She didn't say anything about a trans person. What I'm saying is that, there's no way someone who was always a guy drew that...

(Anonymous) 2013-02-02 01:01 am (UTC)(link)
The point is that trans* people were always that gender mentally, but they were brought up and born into the wrong one. So to answer your question: yes, that brother who was born into a girl's body and raised as a girl was always male.

(Anonymous) 2013-02-02 01:10 am (UTC)(link)
I see. I don't think I really understood that OP was trying to hurt people instead of just being a jerk to be funny. Thank you for explaining and I'm sorry I was offensive too.

(Anonymous) 2013-02-02 01:04 am (UTC)(link)
What else do you want them to say? "My older brother (who used to be my older sister lol)"? "my older trans-brother"?
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[personal profile] ill_omened 2013-02-02 01:11 am (UTC)(link)
My older sister.

Treat trans people as they present.

Even if you have philosophic, or scientific issues with that - you lose nothing from doing so.

(Anonymous) 2013-02-02 01:14 am (UTC)(link)
But the brother in question looks like he's presenting as male.

(Anonymous) 2013-02-02 01:17 am (UTC)(link)
ayrt

I think in this context, the brother is a transman. If they are a transwoman, then of course it should be "older sister".
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[personal profile] cadremage 2013-02-02 01:20 am (UTC)(link)
Presenting to themselves, or presenting to other people?

(Anonymous) 2013-02-02 01:10 am (UTC)(link)
IME referring to trans people by gender they identify with is the only appropriate and respectful way to do it, and it's natural for people to assume that because it's true.

And honestly confused here: do you not think men draw pretty/feminine/silly things?