OT question from an anon...sorry to burst into the convo but your comment made me think of something.

I have a character-male who has deep seated issues and sleeps around (often with women who treat him terribly and he allows himself to be kicked around by them which is a confounding issue)

Would that be considered Unfortunate Implications or 'slutshaming'. I'm a bit worried because even thou he's treated sympathetically , his habits are treated as detrimental to him and 'not a good idea'.

Sorry for interrupting you.