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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-02-08 06:38 pm

[ SECRET POST #2229 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2229 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.


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05. http://i.imgur.com/Xs4i0UB.jpg
[sort of porny, real person]


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06. http://oi47.tinypic.com/zk216r.jpg
[sort of porny, maybe? Jennifer's Body]



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[Ripper Street]


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[Warhammer 40k]


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17. [SPOILERS for American Horror Story]



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18. [SPOILERS for My Little Pony: Friendship is Magic]



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19. [SPOILERS for The Office]



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20. [WARNING for rape, abuse]

[OP marked this as "no warnings" but there's bound to be triggery discussion in the thread]


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Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 00 pages, 000 secrets from Secret Submission Post #318.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 1 - broken links ], [ 1 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.
eaten_by_bears: Rodimus Prime, I am sick and tired of being responsible for the welfare of the entire universe and its outlying suburbs (Default)

Re: Cowardice or Legit?

[personal profile] eaten_by_bears 2013-02-09 12:51 am (UTC)(link)
If it were me, I'd be pretty galled by the idea that they could claim to love me and hate queer people. That's why I come out to my family, so they can't say it isn't anyone they know.

da

(Anonymous) 2013-02-09 01:00 am (UTC)(link)
out of curiosity, how did they react? (if you're comfortable telling)
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Re: da

[personal profile] eaten_by_bears 2013-02-09 01:21 am (UTC)(link)
Let's see. I came out to my mom and dad as bisexual when I was a teenager. My mom told me most people 'pick one or the other' after a while. My dad apparently forgot about it, and was surprised when it came up in conversation seven years later. When I reiterated that I was bi, and insisted that I'd told him before, he said, "I don't need to know this." So now I send him a greeting card every year on Pride Day.

I came out to them as trans when I was in college. My dad said he wanted what was best for me, whatever that happened to be. My mom was generally supportive and very curious. My brother was pretty cool about it. He said, "Well, the surprise isn't that you're coming out..." So I figure he saw it coming.

I'm not sure if they like trans guys better than bi folk, or if a few years made a big enough difference in the political climate that it sunk in for them, or if after I came out as one thing they were more accepting of another or what.

Neither of my parents are openly homophobic, though. I mean, they'd say they don't hate gay people, they have a handful of queer acquaintances, I'm pretty sure they vote for equal legal protection, etc. They just have some troubling ideas they haven't really examined.
eaten_by_bears: Rodimus Prime, I am sick and tired of being responsible for the welfare of the entire universe and its outlying suburbs (Default)

Re: da

[personal profile] eaten_by_bears 2013-02-09 01:22 am (UTC)(link)
I should also say, we've never been close. So I wasn't in OP's position where they stand to lose a really important relationship.

ayrt

(Anonymous) 2013-02-09 01:28 am (UTC)(link)
I see! I'm glad things worked out, then

thank you for indulging my curiosity c: