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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-02-09 02:34 pm

[ SECRET POST #2230 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2230 ⌋

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Notes:

Early because blizzard, not quite sure if power will last.

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(Anonymous) 2013-02-09 08:15 pm (UTC)(link)
Eh...I could see it if you cosplayed a character you shipped that character with, but otherwise you're basically saying you want to imagine you're sleeping with said fictional character, which is...eh, power to you OP, but I'd feel kind of hurt if my boyfriend fantasized about a character so much they'd rather, at any point, want to see that character instead of me during sex. Rather feel like they were sleeping with them. It's not really so different than dressing up as a real person.

(Anonymous) 2013-02-09 11:21 pm (UTC)(link)
There's nothing wrong with wanting to have sex with a fictional character (or a real person), but I don't think that's the only way to interpret the secret. OP could mean that their perfect woman gets off on pretending to be the character. OP could also mean that their perfect woman loves them enough that they want to give OP the pleasure of letting them have an encounter with the character.

(Also, you may want to have a discussion with your boyfriend...)

(Anonymous) 2013-02-10 12:23 am (UTC)(link)
But there can be something wrong with wanting that sex so much you feel like you need to supplant the image of your lover with that person. "I need you to dress up as my high school girlfriend, I want to have sex with her". You don't see the issue with that? I don't see it as so different than a fictional character.

You're right that there can be a lot of alright and perfectly healthy reasons for what OP said, though. But as I interpreted it,

(Also, you may want to have a discussion with your boyfriend...)

If he ever tells me he wants me to dress up as Amy Pond, I'll tell him how I feel. But, for now, I think my feelings and opinions are healthy.

OP

(Anonymous) 2013-02-10 06:45 pm (UTC)(link)
I didn't say anything about needing to have sex with Nannasprite. Just if a girl thought it was fun to cosplay her and have sex with me, I would consider the the perfect woman. It was mostly kind of a joke secret that you're reading way too much into.

Re: OP

(Anonymous) 2013-02-10 06:46 pm (UTC)(link)
*consider HER