[ SECRET POST #2230 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2230 ⌋

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Notes:

Early because blizzard, not quite sure if power will last.

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Comments

[(Anonymous)]

It depends what we mean by "extension of self".

If I mean that I exert/expect total control over my kids personalities/abilities/wants/desires/ext. then yeah, I'm a shitty parent.

If I mean that I consider them to be autonomous but equally important to me as I am then that's fine. (Like, you expand your idea of self to cover your family, but don't expect to control/own them.)

[diet_poison]

I guess I see "I see my child as autonomous" as being completely non-compatible with "I see my child as an extension of myself". Like I said to the anon above, it's getting pedantic. I don't really get what you mean by "expand your idea of self" but I think we're more or less in agreement. Loving and protecting your family as much as you do yourself is a good thing; viewing your children as mere accessories to yourself is not.