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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-02-09 02:34 pm

[ SECRET POST #2230 ]


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[personal profile] diet_poison 2013-02-10 03:08 am (UTC)(link)
hmm, I don't know. That's actually maybe not something I've thought of super hard because I've given a lot of consideration to having an adoptive family (I know for sure I want kids one day). But it's an interesting question. I think my spiritual beliefs would play into the answer for me, tbh.

Also, even though I've had some really rough times in my life, and there are times I would say I wished I were dead/hadn't been born, overall I'm very happy that my parents decided to have me. I rather like being alive.

(Anonymous) 2013-02-10 11:15 am (UTC)(link)
That's really nice for you.

But parents still willingly take the risk of their child being unhappy as fuck with being born, and in the end, it's the child that has to deal with that.

I think it's okay to be a parent, but it's a huge responsibility. You're taking a huge risk for another person, and you owe it to that other person to minimise that risk any way you can.
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[personal profile] diet_poison 2013-02-10 02:08 pm (UTC)(link)
I think it's okay to be a parent, but it's a huge responsibility. You're taking a huge risk for another person, and you owe it to that other person to minimise that risk any way you can.

I can get on board with this. And to be clear I don't think you should have kids unless you can provide for them and take care of them.

(Anonymous) 2013-02-10 04:24 pm (UTC)(link)
You realize that's an ideal right?

The sort of demographic that shouldn't have kids for this reason are the very ones who do. The poor and uneducated and ignorant add to crowding overpopulation.

This is a 3rd world problem.
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[personal profile] diet_poison 2013-02-10 06:54 pm (UTC)(link)
Yes, I realize that is ideal. It's also ideal to say that nobody should be in poverty or uneducated, but it would still be a good thing and people are working towards that goal.