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fandomsecrets2013-02-17 03:55 pm
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(Anonymous) 2013-02-18 09:37 am (UTC)(link)I guess you could draw parallels between men enjoying a dominatrix fantasy (e.g. tied up, sexual things done to you) and women enjoying a rape fantasy. They're both about surrendering control to someone else. I'm assuming you're not dreaming about actual rape, no crying, trauma, etc., so it may also be that it isn't the rape per say that is your kink. Of course, rapists and dominatrices aren't gender exclusive but in my experience there tends to be a majority of female dominatrices and male rapists. I'm also just sticking to straight relationships here for simplicity.
Maybe it's just this idea of surrendering but that in our society it would be considered rape due to the mystery surrounding pyramidhead. You don't know him and aren't in any type of relationship (by this I mean both non-romantic and romantic) but he is in control of your sexual pleasure. He is also gaining pleasure from sex act at a priority over your pleasure.
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(Anonymous) 2013-02-18 07:29 pm (UTC)(link)Your brain essentially has three parts, the most primitive of which is programmed for two things: food and sex. Pyramidhead, representing sex, therefore appeals to your most basic human desires. It may in fact be then that it is the sex, not the rape that is the appeal to you.
True rape, with trauma, is not the appeal here, it's just the sex. As I said before, part of feminism is being confident in your sexual turn ons and offs. As long as you can understand what it is that appeals to you in a situation that is not a calm loving relationship and understand that this would not work in real life then there shouldn't be a problem.