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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-02-19 06:49 pm

[ SECRET POST #2240 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2240 ⌋

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Re: a isn't b

(Anonymous) 2013-02-20 03:14 am (UTC)(link)
And what everyone else is saying is, "don't assume people have legitimate problems and aren't fakers," which is equally valid. But you don't like that.
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Re: a isn't b

[personal profile] likeadeuce 2013-02-20 03:16 am (UTC)(link)
No I do not think it is equally valid. Especially if THEY ARE YOUR FRIENDS.

If you think it is just as valid to assume that your friends are fake liars as that they are truly representing their own experiences, then yes, I go back my conclusion that a lot of people on this thread are assholes.

Re: a isn't b

(Anonymous) 2013-02-20 03:21 am (UTC)(link)
We're not talking about our personal friends. We're talking about the random people on the internet that the OP is talking about, and that we don't actually know. It's as valid to assume that they are fakers as it is to assume that they are for real, because we don't know them, and given the limited information we have, both possibilities are likely.
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Re: a isn't b

[personal profile] likeadeuce 2013-02-20 03:37 am (UTC)(link)
Well why the fuck would OP be having deeply personal conversations with people who aren't their friends?

Re: a isn't b

(Anonymous) 2013-02-20 04:04 am (UTC)(link)
possibly because some people vent and bare their souls to everyone who is even somewhat friendly with them, regardless of whether they've been encouraged or invited to do so, and sometimes the recipient of the venting feels guilty about telling them "please don't do this"?

Re: a isn't b

(Anonymous) 2013-02-20 03:22 am (UTC)(link)
I feel like it's more harmful to dismiss people with legitimate problems than help people with exaggerated/non-existent problems, but that's just me.

Re: a isn't b

(Anonymous) 2013-02-20 03:25 am (UTC)(link)
I've seen people destroyed by the latter, so in my mind, it's about equal.