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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-02-20 06:47 pm

[ SECRET POST #2241 ]


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Re: I still have dreams about my teacher

(Anonymous) 2013-02-21 04:13 am (UTC)(link)
I'm not suggesting you have issues with your dad, it may be the opposite! I once heard a psychologist talk about a mechanism that gets set up in girls (assuming you are a girl, idk if this happens to other gender configurations) who have "perfect" fathers, where they then idealize "perfect" older male authority figures, and don't attach to male peers until later. It's a protective mechanism, because then you don't get attached to a partner unless he meets your high, but fair, expectations. It's the opposite of the girl who's dad is an alcoholic then she goes and bangs an alcoholic.

I thought that may be what's happening here? Trusting that your dad was as awesome as you say. Food for thought.

Maybe this guy just isn't for you? Or maybe you haven't matured enough for a relationship, or maybe he isn't mature enough, or both? Maybe he's just not up to your standard? (I mean that in a good way.)