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Kinks you're ashamed of

(Anonymous) 2013-02-24 11:26 pm (UTC)(link)
Sure, kinks are okay, YKINMK, and all that. But it's easier said than done. Sometimes, you feel ashamed anyway. Sometimes you can help think you might have a good reason to be ashamed of it. What are some kinks you're still ashamed of, F!S?

Re: Kinks you're ashamed of

(Anonymous) 2013-02-24 11:30 pm (UTC)(link)
I was thinking "NO, I OWN UP TO MY KINKS" until... Weight-gain and feeding. Then I my own weight went up due to medication, and as a consequence I don't like it as much as I used to, but it was a bulletproof kink for me for a couple of years.

Nope, not going un-anon for this one.
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Re: Kinks you're ashamed of

[personal profile] chardmonster 2013-02-24 11:34 pm (UTC)(link)
Kinkshaming.

I fucking love kinkshaming, but nobody wants to engage me in kinkshameplay because then I immediately begin shaming them for their love of kinkshaming

Re: Kinks you're ashamed of

(Anonymous) 2013-02-24 11:41 pm (UTC)(link)
How dare you love kinkshaming you freak. What's wrong with you? Only the most depraved people kinkshame. I bet you stand around shaming people in the street and all the kinkshame videos you collect are harming the children.

Why do you hate kinks, ykinmk and all you horrible kinkshaming person. Your kink is disgusting

Re: Kinks you're ashamed of

(Anonymous) 2013-02-24 11:42 pm (UTC)(link)
A+

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Re: Kinks you're ashamed of

(Anonymous) 2013-02-24 11:42 pm (UTC)(link)
Your shame is an ocean.

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Re: Kinks you're ashamed of

(Anonymous) 2013-02-24 11:51 pm (UTC)(link)
You know, if you have any hopes of becoming a comedian, better not quit your day job just yet.

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Re: Kinks you're ashamed of

(Anonymous) 2013-02-24 11:34 pm (UTC)(link)
Incest. I can admit I like sibling incest to my friends, but I also read daddy-daughter incest. Meep, so hot but I am also ashamed.

Re: Kinks you're ashamed of

(Anonymous) 2013-02-25 03:30 am (UTC)(link)
I have a HUGE kink for dads, and daddy+daughter is one of them :(

Re: Kinks you're ashamed of

(Anonymous) 2013-02-24 11:37 pm (UTC)(link)
- Incest
- Shota/loli
- Watersports
- Guro/amputation

Used to be grossed out by stuff like that, but the internet makes me go through this process when I first a) become desensitized to a kink, and then b) start to find it hot.

Re: Kinks you're ashamed of

(Anonymous) 2013-02-24 11:37 pm (UTC)(link)
I know it's quite vanilla by kink standards, but pure noncon where the victim is left bleeding and torn.


Less vanilla, I'm equally okay with reading* underage noncon where the victim is left bleeding and torn.


*reading fictional stories about fictional male characters only. I can't stomach real life tellings and I definitely won't touch pictures or videos. I also can't read it when the victim is a woman :s

Re: Kinks you're ashamed of

(Anonymous) 2013-02-24 11:40 pm (UTC)(link)
bestiality
sex change without consent
sexual slavery

Re: Kinks you're ashamed of

(Anonymous) 2013-02-24 11:51 pm (UTC)(link)
bestiality

Same here. It's probably the only one I'd never have the balls to write, either. I've written fanfiction with some of my other extreme kinks, but that one, I just can't do it.

Re: Kinks you're ashamed of

(Anonymous) 2013-02-25 12:14 am (UTC)(link)
Ugh, bestiality. I end up writing it for every single fandom but then I end up with nowhere to post it because I always seem to end up in these sugary sweet and innocent fandoms and I don't want to be shunned :(

Also cuckolding. Hardcore, humiliating cuckolding.

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Re: Kinks you're ashamed of

(Anonymous) 2013-02-25 12:37 am (UTC)(link)
saaame.
But I can't even make myself prompt for it on anon kinkmemes.

Re: Kinks you're ashamed of

(Anonymous) 2013-02-24 11:43 pm (UTC)(link)
Rampant, blatant misogyny. I don't mean just calling a woman sexual slurs during sex, I mean actual misogyny turns me on. Especially the old-fashioned kind.

I hate it and it doesn't turn me on at all IRL. However, while I hate it in fiction too, it also turns me on in spite of my intellectual hatred of it (example: everything written by Frank Miller and a lot of the most problematic stuff written by Steven Moffat). And in smutfic, I seek it out and eat it up with a spoon. Particularly the stuff written by 15 year old girls who don't really understand gender issues yet.

Yup. *checks anon*

Re: Kinks you're ashamed of

(Anonymous) 2013-02-25 12:05 am (UTC)(link)
Realistic rape.

Not straight 'rar stranger jumps out of the bushes oh no' or where they end up enjoying it and it's all artificial.

Re: Kinks you're ashamed of

(Anonymous) 2013-02-25 01:51 am (UTC)(link)
shota. mostly because i still don't know why this is a kink for me. i don't even know what it is i'm identifying with. i'd feel better about it if i understood it.

Re: Kinks you're ashamed of

(Anonymous) 2013-02-25 01:56 am (UTC)(link)
I feel lame for this, but I'm not even entirely sure what does and doesn't count as a kink. I guess it's subjective to a certain degree?

That said, I'm not sure I have any that I'm ashamed to admit. Well, at least not to F!S or close friends. I wouldn't want to tell my family or casual acquaintances or anything, but I don't think *anyone* would want to share their kinks with those people.

Pretty much just really large penises and/or sex toys, but I feel like that's really tame as far as kinks go. (Also, I'm not sure the name for it. I thought it was "size kink" but it seems that's more about a person's height/weight?)

And *maybe* mpreg to an extent, but I don't think it's really a kink so much as just something I find weirdly fascinating to read about (like, it doesn't turn me on or anything...although I've read that kinks don't necessarily have to be sexual? idk).

Re: Kinks you're ashamed of

(Anonymous) 2013-02-25 01:58 am (UTC)(link)
CBT.

Objectification.

Re: Kinks you're ashamed of

(Anonymous) 2013-02-25 02:49 am (UTC)(link)
Male characters I like getting physically hurt.

I think it's an adaptive response. I get injured a lot, and the way my body dealt with it was lowering the threshold of when endorphins get released, so it feels warm and slow, half good half bad.

So when I see it happening to characters, I think I respond to it out of empathy.

Re: Kinks you're ashamed of

(Anonymous) 2013-02-25 02:56 am (UTC)(link)
I guess this isn't a kink, but it is an attraction thing. I'm straight, but not attracted masculine looking/behaving men. I've also been attracted to transgendered women a few times. But hardly ever to cis women.

I've seen wank with people saying "if you're attracted to men/women, you're probably transphobic if you can't be attracted to trans men/trans women (I don't really agree, people can't help what attracts them IMO). But I feel like I'm doing something wrong, if I'm not attracted to women, but can be attracted to trans women... like I must not really see them as women, or something.

Re: Kinks you're ashamed of

(Anonymous) 2013-02-25 03:02 am (UTC)(link)
Extreme violence, which leaves the victim physically broken - it could be a "Red Sonja" type "if you beat me you can have me" situation, a violent rape, or the victim having sex with their rescuer in gratitude, just so long as they're bleeding and suffering broken bones. (All body parts save teeth must be intact, however. Dismemberment does not turn me on.)

Loli. I do not like to have the violence combined with the loli. Or any sort of non-consensual situation.

Re: Lines you wish you could erase from canon

(Anonymous) 2013-02-25 04:34 am (UTC)(link)
Older person/underage person.

Not, like, a kid or anything, but sort of along the same lines as pederasty, where the teen is just young enough (and the other person is old enough) that it would be totally illegal.

Might be the naivety thing, I don't know and I don't feel much like analyzing it atm.