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⌈ Secret Post #2250 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Stan Lee]

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[Pusher II]

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[nigahiga]

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[code lyoko evolution]

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10. [SPOILERS for Homestuck]

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11. [SPOILERS for Kuroko no Basket]

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12. [WARNING for rape]

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13. [WARNING for abuse]

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14. [WARNING for rape]

[SNSD/Girls' Generation]

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15. [WARNING for dub-con]

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16. [WARNING for sexual assault]

[One Flew Over the Cuckoo's Nest]

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I totally get that feeling - back in uni, I used to generally get As across the board, so it was upsetting to me when I got a B+. I knew, intellectually, that a B+ was still a good grade, but it still rankled.

I used to go over my tests/papers and try and figure out what wasn't good enough. (I did Lit, so it's not like there were clear right/wrong answers.) It took me a long time, but I eventually figured out that that didn't help. I just wound up obsessing more and getting myself really down.

This is what worked for me: vent, but do it productively. Whatever I was feeling, I channeled into artistic endeavours - I wrote, I drew, I played a lot of piano (especially the angry, loud songs). Just venting alone wasn't enough. More often than not, it's just a lot of bile that got redirected onto myself, so I wound up feeling worse than when I started. But if I made something from that venting, then that really helped.

If you're artistic, try something along those lines. If you're athletic, engaging in your favourite sport might help. Just pour those feelings into something else and work it out that way.

Then remember that this is one tiny blip in a consistently good performance, and forgive yourself.

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